You may have already posted some articles on digg.com or on your blog which have started a lot of comments, sometimes comments are precious insights but others it’s a bit hard to answer to some very hostile and rude comments.
This is a short list which will help you to quickly resolve these situations without going mad and loosing your time:
1. Verbal attackers do not necessarily want to hurt you, so COOL DOWN.
2. Hold on a moment before answering (most of the time the attacker just wants your attention).
3. Don’t leap to a conclusion until you have finished to read the comment entirely (do not stop reading because you think that the argument is false).
4. Don’t set you up as a victim this would just reward the attacker.
5. Talk in platitudes, talk in generalities and don’t fight back as it would only allow keeping the altercation going worse.
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